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Women are more prone to romantic jealousy spurred by Facebook posts than men, particularly if they think other people can see that their relationship may be in trouble, a new study suggests.
During the study, 226 heterosexual college-age men and women were asked to imagine that they had discovered a photo of their significant other with a person of the opposite sex on Facebook. In the hypothetical scenario, the study participants could view the privacy settings of their boyfriend's or girlfriend's Facebook account (which was still logged in) — and thus could see whether the photo was visible to others on Facebook.
Women reported greater feelings of jealousy when they imagined the scenario than did men. Women rated their level of jealousy as a six out of a possible nine, compared to a four out of nine for men.
Both women and men reported the greatest level of jealousy if the photo's privacy settings meant that the photo could not be viewed by other people on Facebook — an indication that their romantic interest was trying to hide something. If the photo could be seen by other people on Facebook, men's level of jealousy dropped, while women's remained high.
Women were also more hurt by the scenario than men if there were relatively few photos of them with their partner on Facebook.
Together "these findings suggest that the public nature of potential infidelity may influence emotions differently for men and women," the researchers wrote in the Feb. 1 issue of the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking. "Women may experience more negative [emotions] when they believe that others are able to view lack of evidence of being in a committed relationship," they said.
However, because the scenario was imagined, it's impossible to know whether the findings would translate into the real world, or actually cause a couple to break up. Future research should examine whether a situation on Facebook, similar to the one used in this study, would hurt a real relationship, the researchers, from the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, said.
Previous studies have found that people who spend more time on Facebook report greater levels of romantic jealously, and more frequent viewing of their partner's Facebook profile, than people who spend less time on the social networking site.
Facebook also presents people with opportunities to misinterpret information, the researchers said. For instance, the scenario described in the current study did not necessarily provide evidence of infidelity, but it was interpreted that way. "Facebook can be a place where individuals interpret ambiguous information in a non-ambiguous way, producing negative emotions," the researchers said.
Pass it on: Facebook posts that suggest infidelity are more likely to incite jealousy in women than men.
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well maybe if women didn't waste so much time on this facebook then they wouldn't take offense to the slightest little things that are completely insignificant. A girl once broke up with me because someone posted a picture of me and this other girl playing twister at a house-party where it appeared that i had my shirt off and was dry-humping her. the real explination obviosuly was that i took my shirt off for increased mobility/ flexibbility and i had to "hump" her becuase it was right foot on red left foot on yellow with both hands on green so we just ended up like that and i only kissed her after the game was over to congratulate her on the victory but obviosuly my girlffriend at the time was doing all that facebook specculation over-hyping crap and took it all the wrong way.
What's really sad is how many people would believe innocence from a story like that.
Hahaha right? When i play twister with my guy friends i always kiss them after... or wait twister with my guy friends?
Right, Facebook is to blame, not you kissing another girl after playing shirtless twister with her.
Facebook can wreck an already fragile relationship, that's for sure.
I think it is probably a lot more than that, truthfully. A recent study showed that men did not think it was adultery to have an online relationship with someone outside of their marriage while their wives most definitely did. To women, virtual infidelity does indeed carry the same weight as real infidelity. It is a betrayal of trust. Men seem to have a different concept of where the boundaries are than what women do. Perhaps it is more a lack of communication over expectations. While a picture may not be an infidelity, the hint of it is painful and can cause emotional scars.
Men think faithful means no genital contact. Women put more into relationships than just genitals.
One major problem with the study is the assumption that men and women would rate their jealousy on the same scale.
so is it really required to study jealousy as a subject? Just let it be..
its funny how people on facebook always post pictures looking happy, but they are really probably very sad on the inside!
I don't use or have a Facebook page. If I need Facebook for my social life, I am a loser and deserve a girl that would cheat on me and steal all my money!